#AskDating: Should I contact my ex?


Updated July 24, 2013 ● 454 views

We have been broken up for almost 2 years now. I saw him 2 monhs ago in a restaurant but we didn't talk. I'm wondering if it's a good idea to contact him again. Should I? Or is it a bad idea?

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You guys broken up because something is broken. It wasn't meant to be. Why would you want to contact your ex? From my experience, this is a bad idea. Past is past and there's no point to go back to the past. Learn from it. Face the future. There are better things to come.

Ronn · 10 years ago
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Why would you want to contact your ex? Do you still have feelings for him?

Alexa · 10 years ago
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@Alexa: Well... i'm not really sure. I guess after I saw him 2 months ago I'm kinda thinking about him. I don't think I still have feeling for him. I just want to say hi.

LostTime · 10 years ago
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@LostTime: you just want tp say hi?? Don't.

Allie22 · 10 years ago
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@Allie22: i think i kinda miss him and i want to talk to him to see whether he might still like me. If not then that's hit... I will nevr contact him again.

LostTime · 10 years ago
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@LostTime: Well... it's up to you... but from my experience it's a terrible idea to deal with an ex. An ex is an ex for a reason. Once a door closes a new one open. So close the door. Or you will have a hard time meeting the one that is meant for you.

Allie22 · 10 years ago
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You need to move on. There are a lot of better guys out there who deserves you. Even if he's the one who contacts you, ignore him.

Allie22 · 10 years ago
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From my experience exes are bad idea. Don't ever contact your ex. They are exes for a reason.

Jenni · 10 years ago
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I say go for it. Contact your ex. You only live once and the worst thing to live with is regret.

JoeZee · 10 years ago
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@JoeZee: Hmmm... Im still thinking about it.

LostTime · 10 years ago
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@LostTime: I would say don't call him. Move on. There's a lot of guys out there who deserves you.

RobG · 10 years ago
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NC = No Contact ... forever. Unless you guys have kids.

HenryD · 10 years ago
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No contact forever. Specially if he was the one who broken up with you. Move on the next guy who deserves you.

twist23 · 10 years ago
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