#AskDating: How do I breakup with my boyfriend? | #BreakUps

Updated February 13, 2015 ‚óŹ 589 views

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I want to break up with him, but I dont want to hurt him. I've tried breaking up with him in the past but he told me he will hurt himself. He said Im all he's got.

I am confused. I dont know what to do. I love him, but I'm not "in love" with him anymore. I feel like a prisoner and I'm not happy with him. When I'm around him, it makes me feel really uncomfortable. I don't know why I have suddenly started feeling like this.

Can someone help me how to break up with him?


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You are in a very stressful situation. And what you need to do is just break up with your boyfriend. You cannot be responsible for whatever your would be ex would do.

And your boyfriend is basically an ass. He should not be threatening you that he would hurt himself. He is manipulating you psychologically.

And that should be enough reason for you to really break up with him. A person who manipulates other person is not a good person. He is selfish.

Just break up with him and avoid him. Do not see him. Do not answer his calls, his texts, his emails. You need to vanish to let him get used to you not being around.


Alex · 9 years ago
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This is difficult, be sure your bf is not crazy enough to do something stupid. Call her friends, relative after you breakup, if you do, just to check up on him.

Avoid and don't talk to him if you breakup.

Timmy · 9 years ago
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